i feel super super ultra ultra completely hypocritical now. ):

making excuses for myself, really, but it's so easy to get swayed to one side when you don't have any contact with the other. but thinking about what i've said and what i've done i feel like i'm a completely two-faced monster.

sometimes meaning well isn't enough i guess.

okay. lesson learnt. reserve judgement. especially when i don't know the full story and when it really doesn't involve me directly at all.